IT'S TIME TO SPEAK ON MY EXPERIENCES OF GROWING INTO A WOMAN, YES I GROWN NOW...LOL. I AM ALWAYS POSTING QUOTES FROM OTHER PEOPLE, SO I THOUGHT IT WAS TIME TO WRITE FROM THE HEART OF Takesia Stubbs a.k.a SUGA"T"

LOVE IS SUCH A COMPLICATED EMOTION, WHEN YOU FIND LOVE YOU HOLD ON TO IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT, BUT SOMETIMES LOVE COMES FROM THE MOST UNEXPECTED PLACES. THE SAYING OPPOSITES ATTRACT IS VERY TRUE. (1)HE OR SHE CAN BE AN UGLY PERSON BUT BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER, IT'S WHAT'S INSIDE A PERSON HEART THAT MATTERS THE MOST. (2)HE OR SHE CAN BE FAT OR SKINNY, BUT WE CAN'T JUDGE A PERON'S OUTTER APPEARANCE IT'S WHAT INSIDE THAT COUNTS. (3)HE OR SHE CAN BE SO GHETTO, BUT WITH THE RIGHT PERSON IN THEIR LIVES THAT GHETTO PERSON CAN BECOME THE BEST HUMAN BEING THAT YOU WILL EVER MEET BEING THAT YOU WERE THE PERSON THAT CAME INTO THEIR LIVES AND GAVE IT MEANING AND THEIR TRUE SELF CAN SHINE THROUGH ALL BECAUSE THEY WERE GIVEN A CHANCE TO PROVE THEMSELVES. (4) HE OR SHE MAY BE OLDER OR YOUNGER THAN YOU, BUT LIKE MY FAVORITE R&B SINGER AALIYAH SONG SAY "AGE AIN'T NOTHING BUT A NUMBER" AND YOU CAN'T PUT AGE ON LOVE, IT'S THE EMOTION, CARING AND SHARING THAT THE COUPLE FEELS FOR EACH OTHER, WITH THAT BEING SAID, WE SHOULD NOT LET HATERS SPEAK ON OUR LIVES AND JUDGE WHO WE LOVE CAUSE THAT HATER IS JEALOUS AND MAY WANT WHAT YOU HAVE SO THEY HATE AND WAIT FOR THEIR TURN TO HAVE HIM OR HER, HATERS ARE FUNNY PEOPLE HUH, THEY ONLY WANT SOMETHING OR SOMEONE UNTIL THEY SEE ANOTHER PERSON'S HAPPINESS AND THEY WANT THAT HAPPINESS FOR THEMSELVES, INSTEAD OF HATING, HATERS SHOULD FOCUS ON THEIR LIVES AND MAYBE THEY WILL FIND EXACTLY WHAT THEIR HEARTS DESIRES ALSO. (5) HE OR SHE CAN BE TALL OR SHORT, BUT WHEN THEY COME TOGETHER IN LOVE HEIGHT MEANS NOTHING. (6) HE OR SHE CAN BE A SOPHISTICATED BUSINESS PERSON OR A BLUE COLLAR WORKER, BUT WHEN THAT SOPHISTICATED BUSINESS PERSON AND THE BLUE COLLAR WORKER COME TOGETHER IN LOVE, THEIR PROFESSION IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS A PROFESSION, LOVE IS WHAT MATTERS, NEVER LOOK DOWN ON OTHERS BECAUSE THE RICHEST PERSON IN THE WORLD MAY HAVE ALL THAT MONEY, BUT POOR IN LOVE. WHAT IS SUCCESS IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYONE TO SHARE YOUR SUCCESS WITH. (7) NOW FOR A MINUTE I WILL SPEAK TO SINGLE MOTHERS, WE TEND TO THINK THAT JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE KIDS WE WILL NOT FIND A MAN TO LOVE US, BUT I AM HERE TO SHOUT THAT HE MAY NOT COME TODAY BUT FOR DAMN SURE HE WILL COME TOMORROW, AND DONT BE PICKY CAUSE LOVE COMES IN ALL DIFFERENT SHAPES AND SIZES,MY ADVICE IS TO BE STRONG AND RESPONSIBLE AND BECOME A BETTER PERSON EACH AND EVERYDAY AND FOR SURE LOVE WILL COME KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR, WE SINGLE MOMS MADE MISTAKES IN PICKING UP LOOSERS BUT THOSE LOOSERS GAVE US BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND WE WILL LOVE AND CHERISH THOSE KIDS TO THE END OF OUR OR THEIR LIVES, AND THE SAME WAY YOU TAKE CARE YOUR KIDS, TAKE CARE YOUR MAN ALSO CAUSE HONEY THERE IS  ALWAYS A HATER PUTTING IN HER APPLICATION FOR YOUR MAN, SO STAY ON YOUR JOB AND YOUR JOB IS TO KEEP HIM HAPPY AND HE MUST DO THE SAME FOR YOU. (8) HE OR SHE MAY NOT HAVE ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD BUT YOU CAN WORK WITH THAT PERSON AND CREATE A GREAT LIFE TOGETHER, YOU MAY BE JUST THE RIGHT PERSON TO HELP HIM OR HER TURN THEIR LIFE AROUND FOR THE BETTER, ALL A PERSON NEEDS IS A STRONG WOMAN OR MAN WHO GOT THEIR BACK, RIDE OR DIE LOVE I CALL IT...LOL. (9) WHO SAY GANGSTA LOVE AIN'T REAL LOVE, HE MAY USE TO BE A THUG, BUT THUG NIGGAS NEED LOVE TOO, THAT LOVE CAN BE THE VERY THING TO CHANGE THAT THUG INTO A GENTLEMAN.(10) HE OR SHE MAY BE WHITE OR BLACK, BUT WHEN THE LIGHTS GO OFF IN THE BEDROOM COLOR DOESN'T MATTER IT'S THE PASSION 2 PEOPLE SHARE FOR EACH OTHER. COLOR WAS AN ISSUE BACK IN THE DAYS, GET WITH THE TIMES PEOPLE LOVE IS WHAT MATTERS NOT A PERSON'S SKIN COLOR, LOVE HAS NO BOUNDARIES.

WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE, LOVE IS A COMPLICATED EMOTION, EITHER YOU WORK WITH LOVE OR YOU WORK AGAINST IT...IT'S YOUR CHOICE PEOPLE. LIKE I SAID BEFORE LOVE CAN COME IN ALL DIFFERENT AGES,SHAPES, SIZES OR COLOR....YA DIG!!!!